{"blocks":[{"key":"erp57","text":"我发了好几个帖子在找女友，到如今没什么收获，是我表达不合适还是看客无法理解我呢？","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"brsvg","text":"https://www.douban.com/group/topic/106893676/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"fdtsi","text":"https://www.douban.com/group/topic/122454517/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"4q0en","text":"https://www.douban.com/group/topic/110007017/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"1tf3p","text":"https://www.douban.com/group/topic/122568755/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"f27qh","text":"https://www.douban.com/group/topic/123518699/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"2f7ed","text":"反思自己，为什么要找恋人？是缺人吗，不能否认我是缺人，但是最终目的或许不是缺人而是缺爱。对于从来不知道什么是被爱的人来讲，这样的渴望表现得痴妄。也曾想过要做一些解释，可是有种越描越黑的感觉，算了吧，今天看到一个帖子，就借用一下 https://www.douban.com/group/topic/123397797/ ","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"70ihk","text":"爱情不是可以靠计划得来的，不是理性分析能得到的，是不可预知结局的，是无法掌握走向的，是无法预设过程的。面对冰冷的NT型人，似乎注定要失望了，可我也是NT型人呀，热情和理想只是我独有的吗。我在找intp，这也是通过分析后的最好的选择，E型人热情有能量，可是话多容易觉得聒噪，同样的NT型是为了有共同的思维方式，不找J型是因为J型人不喜欢悬而未决的状态，总是试图寻找一个确定性的答案，习惯用挑刺的方式审视别人，不符合自己条条框框的一律排除掉，而我这些年来的经验是我肯定会在第一时间就被除掉了。认识到了J型人这种缺陷所以强调要让自己保持对未知的开放性。","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"1vn0t","text":"一直想要突破各种条条框框，却在刚才蓦然发现我发这些帖子本身就在框框中。唉，真是可笑，发帖寻友本身这样的目的性就太强了，或许不如到处溜达会有不期然的际遇呢，就像以前一样。只是年龄大了，又发生了些事情让自己太着急了吧。","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}}],"entityMap":{}}
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